How many times do I say to new skippers when they are training, keep it simple and make life as easy as possible. That means, when berthing, take the easy option. I completely forgot all this on Saturday night.
We’d had a great beat up the western Solent to Lymington. With the wind building (as forecast) and the rain set in, we decided on the soft option to head to the Yacht Haven Marina rather than roughing it on the Town Quay.
Our designated berth was starboard side too (not so easy on Koru) and as we approached in the darkness it became apparent that the wind was going to be blowing across our beam for the final approach (so blowing our bow into the motor boat moored next to our berth) and our designated finger berth was extremely short in length (reaching just past our beam).
One final factor that should have rung warning bells (had I bothered to listen) was that the motor vessel already berthed (to be on our port side) was moored stern too and was dressed with oversized danforth protruding from its bow- so limiting our turning angle.
Julian was helming (an RYA Coastal Skipper- he was with us for the weekend to refresh/increase his skills) and had a couple of attempts at berthing, both times the bow was swept towards the motor boat before we could get those ready with bow and stern lines close enough to step ashore.
My turn to show that it could be done (what pig headedness!). Same issues on my attempts and I didn’t bother to recognise that I was putting the crew under unnecessary pressure in their attempts to get off with their lines.
At this point I could so easily have asked for fenders and lines to be changed and let us be blown on to one of the vacant port side too berths that were around. But no, I had to prove a point-it could be done.
Well, on my final attempt we ended up with one crew member off (with stern line). The moment the stern line was pulled of course, our bow swung rapidly to the motor boat and we ended up pulling bow and stern away from the motor boat (good job we were both well fendered!) to bring us alongside.
What a mess. All my doing and completely unnecessary. My intuition was telling me to take the easy option, but would I allow myself to hear it-no way.
When it’s pitch black, everyone is cold and wet, you’ve been allocated an awkwardly short berth (in a marina which is only half full) and the wind is making life difficult, then just ignore your instructions. Make life easy for everyone on board!
I did apologise to everyone for my pig headedness and having beaten myself up all night, we had a great sail back to Gosport yesterday!